Welcome to The Digital Haux Underground

A virtual sex-positive POC community for the safe exploration of kink, BDSM, and swinger lifestyles.

About Us

The Haux Hive is a sex positive community that strives to create space for the variety of diverse identities within the kink, BDSM, and swinger communities, both online and in-person. While all bodies are welcome, centering the safety and free expression of Black queer womxn and QTPOC is our priority.

With The Digital Haux Underground, we are able to connect with, educate, and learn from one another AND share creative (and kinky!) content so we can heighten our pleasure and find our FREE!

The Haux Code

THE HAUX CODE (Community Guidelines)

Maintaining The Digital Haux Underground as as a valuable, authentic, and safe space is our priority.

Here is The Haux Code, our guidelines to preserving the values of the space:

PRIVACY - What happens in the Digital Haux Underground, STAYS here. This is a safe space. Violators will be banned from The Digital Haux Underground and future Haux Hive activities.

FREE YOUR MIND - We are a diverse group of people with varying skin colors, sexual preferences, and backgrounds. We've all come together to explore and discuss the magic and variety of sexual expression. Thou will not judge other's kinks or identities!

SHARE GENEROUSLY - Your stories and experiences may be exactly what another member needs to hear today to solve a problem, seize an opportunity, or overcome an inhibition. We want the tea!

DON'T JUDGE YOURSELF - Again, this is a safe space and NOTHING leaves the tribe. Be gentle with yourself as you continue the exploration of your sexuality.

KEEP IT CLASSY (and assy) -  Feel free to post sexy pictures, art, articles, events, thoughts, questions, and other related things. However, this is a DRAMA FREE ZONE! Moderators have the ability to remove or ban any members so be respectful!

 Lastly, have fun, learn a lot, and BE FREE!

Hopefully, these should be easy agreements. If you think you’ll be unable to abide by these guidelines, let us know and we’re happy to remove you.

Why You Should Join Us

1. We are passionate about curating experiences both online and in person for black queer people with the aim of disrupting the mainstream hetero-normative and whitewashed view of kink and kink spaces. 

2. COMMUNITY! During this time, community is more important than anything. By joining The Digital Haux Underground, supporting and engaging with our content, you are helping to support artists and kinksters that have suffered financially due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

PLUS, in addition to access to The Digital Haux Underground, you'll receive 20% off events, 20% off Haux merch, access to exclusive content and members only events!

A Big Thanks

Thank you so much for your support! This time in quarantine has allowed us to get back to our roots of digital connection (shot out to our OG Facebook members!) and we promise to make it worth your while! BUT building an online community is going to require help from us ALL! 

By you joining The Digital Haux Underground, your feedback directly influences the growth of our online colony as we strive to provide the kinky content and experience you need!